Sunday, February 12

Candy - {Peanut Butter and Chocolate Hi-Hat Cupcakes}

"Hey, I think sat behind you in Marketing last semester."

I tugged the ear bud from my left ear, letting it fall neatly over my shoulder and turned to see the source of the voice. Sitting [ironically] behind me, was an innocent-looking guy. Blue-eyed, blonde-haired and messy-headed, he stared at me expectantly with a smile, waiting for a response.


"Um..."

Surely not what he'd hoped for.

I searched my brain for his face, desperately seeking a connection. It was true that he bore a rather striking resemblance to a former classmate, but one from high school - not college. I continued to try, but I just couldn't place him. And, unfortunately, the deeper I spun, the more his smile faded.

He allowed me relief; sharing his name. He was B. He smiled again. "Well, what's your name?"

It was a simple question, I guess. Part of the give-and-take of introductory pleasantries and the first step of truly getting to know someone. It's how it goes. I know it. I wasn't surprised.

But there's this battle in me that involves the answer, and it started years ago. What is my name?


Before college, I was painfully shy. Shy to the point that I couldn't breathe properly when talking to strangers. So shy that I could count on my fingers the amount of people I was comfortable looking in the eyes. And shy, not in an adorable and darling way, but in the most unfortunate way. The way that makes you weird and unsure and awkward and scared. The way that prevents you from being cool or popular or any number of things that young kids spend their childhoods so desperately trying to be.

I was, however, fortunate enough to have friends, most of which I met in elementary school. We were a scrappy bunch - none quite like the other - that enjoyed gushing over The Jewel Kingdom in the cafeteria, drawing in class and beating up boys on the playground. In a good, comforting way, we were united in our "oddness."

As such, I was good within my circle of friends. It expanded and shrunk a few times over the years, but always for the better. I could always talk to them - even look them in the eye - without fear of judgement. But if they weren't around, I was silent. I didn't try to make new friends, I didn't talk to or look at other students and I didn't make any effort to overcome my shyness because I didn't think I could. I sat in the back of the class with a book on my desk and hair in my eyes, calm and collected as long as I was left alone.

I knew, however, that that was no way to live. The summer after I graduated from high school and was getting ready to move into the dorms at MSU, I promised myself that I would be more open and less shy. I didn't really know how to go about it, but I was determined to try, so I went after it head-on.

For my first couple of days at MSU, I ate breakfast, lunch and dinner with a new person. I filled my tray and picked a target, forced myself to make small talk and got some phone numbers. I didn't keep in touch with any of them, but I got over that initial fear of meeting new people, which was huge for me. In my dorm room, I left my door open and made a point to say, "hello," to anyone I passed in the hallway.

Which was how I met A.


A was a goofy guy who was always laughing and saw the best in everyone. He was easy to be around, which was a relief for me, and knew how to take and make a joke like nobody's business. So, naturally, when he forgot my name a few days after we met, I refused to tell him again. And he, naturally, decided to start calling me Candy.

It stuck.

Initially, it didn't occur to me that the name Candy had racy connotations. I thought it was cute and appropriate considering my love of all things sweet, so I didn't mind when the rest of the people on our floor started calling me Candy, too. To be honest, I still think it's an innocent nickname; regardless of what A meant when he dealt it to me.

He was my first friend at MSU, and the first person who made me believe that I have no reason to be so shy. His nickname was a daily reminder that I was succeeding in stepping out of my shell. Without making a big deal of it, A taught me that I am worth talking to. He convinced me to forget fear by teaching me to handle awkward silences with panache and that people aren't inherently mean. I didn't realize it until recently, but I'd been waiting my entire life to meet him just so I could learn how to function socially.

Since then, there are people in my life who have only known me as Candy. For a long time, if anyone asked, I was Candy because that's what all of my closest friends called me.

But today, I think, "I'm Kaitlin," will do.

B smiled again. "It's nice to meet you."


I may still be a little shy and awkward, but you know what? I embrace it. I'm not a social butterfly and I don't want to be. Everyone's got their off moments and I've learned - thankfully - that they're nothing to be ashamed of.

I've lost touch with A, but I'm thankful for everything he taught me whether he meant to or not. In his words, "life is full of awkward moments, but they're only awkward if you believe them to be. So don't. You'll be happier for it."

P.S. For those theatre geeks out there... I'm Shy.

Peanut Butter and Chocolate Hi-Hat Cupcakes

Printable Recipe

Peanut Butter Cupcakes via Annie's Eats

I liked these cupcakes, but I found them to be a little dry and reminiscent of cornbread. Which wasn't necessarily bad, just not quite what I was going for. My only changes to this recipe were to add an additional tablespoon of sugar and use natural, chunky peanut butter. Do you have a good moist peanut butter cake recipe?

1 3/4 c (248g) all-purpose flour
3/4 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
12 Tbsp (177 g) butter, room temp
1 1/3 c (264 g) sugar
2/3 c (156 ml) creamy peanut butter
3 eggs, room temp
1 tsp vanilla
1/2 c (118 ml) sour cream
1/4 c (59 ml) buttermilk (or use regular milk and pour about 1/2 tsp vinegar into the measuring cup before you measure you milk)

Preheat the oven to 350F and line 2 muffin tins with 22 liners. Set aside.

In a small bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Set aside.

In the bowl of your mixer, beat the butter and sugar on medium speed until light and fluffy, about 5 minutes. Add the peanut butter and mix to combine, scraping down the edge of the bowl. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well to incorporate each and scarping the sides before each addition. Add the vanilla and sour cream and beat until well-combined.

Scrape the sides of the bowl and add half the dry ingredients. Mix on low speed until just incorporated. Add the buttermilk and mix until combined, then add the second half of the dry ingredients and mix just until the batter is homogenous.

Divide the batter between the 22 cupcake liners and bake 18-20 minutes or until the top springs back when light pressed. Cool on racks in pans for 3 minutes, then remove cakes from pans and allow to cool completely before frosting.

Chocolate Swiss Meringue Buttercream
The buttercream I used for these cupcakes was a mix of scraps. I added some Whipped Caramel Ganache to Swiss Meringue Buttercream, but not in any specific quantities. The recipe below is a suitable substitute.

Please click for a step-by-step guide to making Swiss Meringue Buttercream and troubleshooting tips!

5 egg whites
1 1/4 c (250 g) sugar
1 1/2 c (340 g) butter, room temp and cut into cubes
2 tsp vanilla
1/2 c chopped chocolate or chocolate chips, melted and cooled

In the base of a double boiler, bring water to a simmer. In the top bowl (or just a bowl to place over a pan of simmering water) combine the egg whites and sugar and whisk constantly until the mixture is hot to the touch (160F on a candy thermometer if you want to be completely accurate), about five minutes depending on the original temperature of the eggs. When the mixture has warmed sufficiently, pour it into the bowl of your stand mixer and whip on high speed until the bottom of the bowl is room temperature, ten to fifteen minutes. When the bowl is no longer warm, turn the mixer to medium-low and begin adding the butter piece by piece. Let each chunk incorporate completely before adding the next and don't rush the process!

After all of the butter has been added, add the vanilla and melted, cooled chocolate and turn the speed back to high. Whip for about 3 minutes or until the buttercream comes together.

Chocolate Dip via Martha Stewart
Don't make this until you're ready to dip (see assembly instructions below)!

2 c (12 oz/340g) chopped chocolate or chocolate chips
3 Tbsp peanut oil

Combine the chocolate and peanut oil in a microwave safe dish and microwave for 30 seconds. Mix to redistribute, then microwave for 30 more seconds. Mix again and microwave for 20 minute bursts, stirring and checking until the chocolate is smooth.

Assembly

Peanut Butter Cupcakes
Chocolate Swiss Meringue Buttercream
Chocolate Dip
Peanuts

Frost cooled cupcakes with buttercream. Place on a baking sheet and refrigerate or freeze until the frosting is cold and firm to the touch. When the cupcakes are ready, prepare the chocolate dip. Transfer to a deep container. Dip each cupcake and hold upside down over the dip for about five seconds to let excess drip away. Place back on baking sheet and top with a peanut. Once all of the cupcakes have been coated, store in the fridge to set. Serve at room temperature.

43 comments:

  1. this is really pretty. I love the effect of the little bit of chocolate left on the case!

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  2. These look AWESOME! I love everything about them and the photos are lovely. Had to scroll back and look at all of them again.

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  3. I'm sort of like the old Kaitlin at some times and the new Kaitlin at others. I'm kind of with you, though; let's just roll out. Nobody can be "on" all the time, so when it feels right, do it. Otherwise, give a coy smile.

    Sidenote: Those cupcakes look like real diet-breakers. Like eat-three-in-a-row-without-looking-back diet breakers. Whew.

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    1. I walk the line between both mes, I suppose. The coy smile is my go-to trick, too ;)

      Also... Yeah. Kinda. Heh. I had trouble keeping my hands off!

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  4. These are so gorgeous. THank yuo so much for the recipe and the story. I am starting a new University next week, living in dorms and am really nervous but your story has made me feel better about how i'll go about it- Thanks! Bake on

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    1. Thank you! I hope you like it at your new school. I'm excited you're going to be living in the dorms - it was such a great experience for me!

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  5. 'Shy' was one of my favorite songs to sing? perform? back when I was in theater. It always struck me as being incredibly appropriate, given that I loved to perform to huge crowds, but couldn't even function when meeting new people or trying to converse with those outside of my 'circle.'

    You put it well, I guess I did think everyone was inherently mean... although in the theater world, they kind of were.

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    1. It's such a fun song to sing :) That musical is so cute.

      I came to a common conclusion in the theater, which I think led me to believe that it might be a widespread kind of thing. Thankfully, however, it's not! I liked hanging out with the techies - which I eventually became - and the pit band.

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  6. I LOVE the idea of dipping a frosted cupcake into chocolate - yum! As for being shy, everyone suffers from it at some stage or other in life, but it does get better. And with treats like these to offer people you've always got a sugar coated ice breaker handy :-)

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    1. It's so fun to do! It seems like it won't work, but oh... It does ;)

      Baked goods definitely help break the ice. I brought in a dozen cuppies for my first day at work!

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  7. Great story...Great looking cupcakes...Thanks for sharing both! ;-)

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  8. I can totally relate ... with both the shyness and the nickname :o) Awesome photos, as always!

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    1. Lol, I know what you mean, Cookie! I'm glad to see you posting more frequently!

      Thanks!

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  9. Honey, you are more than merely worthwhile! Just knowing you through the blog has made me a more adventurous baker, and, not coincidentally, exponentially more popular.

    As for the dryness of the cupcake, how about soaking it gently with some kind of syrup before frosting? Maybe a salty caramel? Let us know if you try it and it works.

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    1. Aw, thank you. You're sweet!

      The syrup is a good idea! I did that with the grapefruit cupcakes I posted recently and wanted to apply the method here, but I was afraid that it would ruin the structure and make the frosting fall off while dipping. The caramel's a good idea - it would get firm in the fridge and hold on the frosting even better. Thanks for the idea!

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  10. Kaitlin, these cupcakes are lovely and so creative!

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  11. These sound delicious. This is my firstvisit to your blog, so I took some time to browse through your earlier posts. I'm soglad I did that. I really like the food and recipes you share with your readers and I'll definitely be back. I hope you have a great day. Blessings...Mary

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    1. Thanks! I'm happy you like the space and I hope you continue to enjoy the posts!

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  12. Great.. at at this rate I'm going to either need to develop an eating disorder or get a raging case of the stomach flu to fit into my summer wardrobe. I've been baking your goodies all winter. Thank god for sweaters!

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    1. LOL. You and me both, Lisa. You and me both... :P

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  13. You a so courageous to challange yourself like that, i really admire that! And yummy cupcakes too:-)

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  14. That was a lovely read... And those are absolutely GORGEOUS cupcakes... Love that chocolate dip! Thanks for sharing :)

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    1. Your so kind - thanks so much for reading! :)

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  15. I love reading your blogs because they're always kind of personal, and I love seeing inside the mind of bloggers. It peels away a bit of the mystery. :)

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    1. Thank you! I'm never really sure if I'm being too personal or not. I'm glad you appreciate the insight :)

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  16. Man, this cupcake looks so good. And the photos are so good I feel like I could taste it!

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  17. yum! i love hi hat cupcakes- and choc/pb ones are my FAV!! normally i do pb frosting, but this choc swiss meringue looks awesome!!

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    1. Sounds like a great combo. Thank you!

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  18. This looks like a great recipe--we're always up to try something with peanut butter and chocolate together.

    We also have a favorite PB cupcake recipe--maybe it's one that will work for you:

    http://www.marthastewart.com/315845/peanut-butter-cupcakes-with-peanut-butte

    (The link looks incomplete--but I copied and pasted it and it worked fine. If it doesn't--it's Martha Stewart's PB cupcake with peanut butter frosting and jelly).

    Krista

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    1. Hey Krista, thanks so much for the link! I'll try this recipe next time for PB cake. Looks yummy!

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  19. Mmmmmm.... absolutely lovely!! Thanks for sharing.

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