Wednesday, December 12

The Situation - {Chocolate Peanut Butter and Pumpkin Cupcakes}

"What major?"

Disinterested, she scrolled through some database, awaiting my response.

I wish I could tell you how I picked marketing. I think I remember struggling internally with the differentiation between that and advertising, but on what basis? For what reason? As the check-in line behind me grew - alive with restless youth - I was too self-conscious to battle anymore, and the word, "marketing," fell heavily from my lips.

"Next."


It was one of those defining moments. Not particularly memorable, exactly, but meaningful for the fact that it determined much of what would occur in the following years. Who I would interact with, where I would sign leases, and, obviously, what I would learn.

I was ushered to step in front of a DSLR and smile, but it was a labored task. The camera was beautiful, and the guy with his finger on the remote wasn't too bad either; both of which contributed to a rather awkward admirable pause. Meaning, of course, that the smile didn't come. Which ensured that the overwhelming quality of that moment would live on forever in a stamp-sized photo on my student ID.

Shit.

Orientation was a mess and a blur. We were all lost that day, and we still are. When I left, I wasn't sure I'd made the right choice in attending MSU, but I stuck it out, and I'm glad.

With three and a half years already gone, I'll have my diploma before I know it. Except, you know, it's not "good enough." In the past week, I've had two people tell me I should "switch to finance," and/or that I'd be better off studying accounting or supply chain management. I'm often reminded that I liked computer programming in high school, and that I should have pursued it in college, but - guess what? I didn't.

It's hard for people to accept, but I happen to like marketing. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but that's fine. Yeah, I have friends who are bio med majors and engineers. Yeah, they rip on me and tell me they "wish they had it as easy as I do," but it's completely irrelevant - not to mention rude.

Education - college or otherwise - produces a variety of people with a variety of skills and that's good. That's what's supposed to happen.

And I've noticed recently that just being a senior makes people think I have my shit together. I mean, yes, things are pretty good right now, but I don't think they realize that I'm absolutely horrified about life after college. I KNOW for a fact that I would have an easier time finding a job if I had studied accounting, but that's not what I want to do.

So when I get approached by younger friends who are struggling in their classes and unsure of their decisions (which has been happening a lot lately), I really feel their pain. I know what it's like to be fighting through weeder courses and feeling discouraged and lost. I know what it's like to not get exactly the grade I wanted, and be disappointed in myself and my strained, seemingly worthless efforts. I know it sucks. I know there's always someone better - but that's just how it is.


To those struggling with their major of choice - the definitive selection that is, to some, the essence of college - you're going to be fine. What's got me through the doubting and questioning about the "right" decision these past years is the fact that I know my degree is not everything. We're encouraged to go into programs and studies that promise wealth. We're driven by the desire to make more and more and more. And yes, money helps. Money can (and does) make things smoother. But that simple saying, money can't buy happiness, has been lost.

And it's unfortunate.

Knowing that I'm not going to be earning $100,000 a year, or close to it, doesn't hurt me. I don't pretend to know what it's like to have a mortgage, or a family. I know there are a lot of responsibilities I'm yet to face. But I also know all kinds of people who aren't making big money - those who did and did not go to college - and guess what? They're happy. That's all I want for myself.

My parents taught me that things usually find a way to work themselves out, and I believe it. You are more than your degree. You're more than a starting salary and a defined path. You're a package deal.

No one knows what's coming, but you've got to believe it's good instead of wasting your time doubting every choice you make.

Be smart and be safe. Do what you think is right.

Everything is going to be ok.

Chocolate, Peanut Butter and Pumpkin Cupcakes
Kind of an odd sounding combination, I know, but it works! I had three people tell me these were the best cupcakes I had ever made, and I think that says something. I hope you'll try it and love it as much as my friends did!

Printable Recipe

Chocolate Pumpkin Cupcakes
This is a dense, moist, chocolaty cake with a hint of pumpkin as the last note. The recipe below will make approximately 2 dozen cupcakes.

1 1/3 c (166 g) flour
3/8 c (33 g) unsweetened cocoa powder
7/8 tsp baking soda
1 tsp cinnamon
3/4 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp salt
1/2 c (118 ml) pumpkin puree
1/6 c (40 ml) sour cream, room temp
1/2 c (118 g) butter, room temp
1 1/2 c (213 g) brown sugar, lightly packed
2 eggs, room temp
1 tsp vanilla
2/3 c (157 ml) hot coffee

Preheat oven to 350F (175C). Line two 12-cup muffin tins and set aside.

Sift together the flour, cocoa, soda, cinnamon, powder and salt in a large bowl and set aside.

In another small bowl, combine the pumpkin puree and sour cream. Set aside.

Cream the butter and sugar, until very light and fluffy, about 5 minutes. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating until very well incorporated. Add the vanilla. Being sure to scrape the bowl often, pour in a third of the dry ingredients, mix until just combined, then add half of the pumpkin mixture and mix until just combined. Repeat, then add the remaining dry ingredients. Gently and gradually stir in the hot coffee. When smooth, fill liners 1/2 to 3/4 full. Bake 15 to 20 minutes, or until the cupcakes spring back when pressed lightly. Cool in pans 3 minutes on a rack, then remove from tins and cool completely before frosting.

Peanut Butter Chocolate Swiss Meringue Buttercream
Add as much or as little peanut butter as you like. Instead of adding chocolate, add leftover ganache (which I seem to always end up with). Most importantly, enjoy!

Please click for a step-by-step guide to making Swiss Meringue Buttercream and troubleshooting tips.

5 egg whites
1 1/4 c (250 g) sugar
1 1/2 c (340 g) butter, room temp and cut into cubes
2 tsp vanilla
1/2 c chopped chocolate or chocolate chips, melted and cooled
1/4 c + smooth peanut butter

In the base of a double boiler, bring water to a simmer. In the top bowl (or just a bowl to place over a pan of simmering water) combine the egg whites and sugar and whisk constantly until the mixture is hot to the touch (160F on a candy thermometer if you want to be completely accurate), about five minutes depending on the original temperature of the eggs. When the mixture has warmed sufficiently, pour it into the bowl of your stand mixer and whip on high speed until the bottom of the bowl is room temperature, ten to fifteen minutes. When the bowl is no longer warm, turn the mixer to medium-low and begin adding the butter piece by piece. Let each chunk incorporate completely before adding the next and don't rush the process!

After all of the butter has been added, add the vanilla and melted, cooled chocolate and turn the speed back to high. Whip for about 3 minutes or until the buttercream comes together. Add peanut butter to taste, beating to combine.

24 comments:

  1. I think you are on the right track! All that matters in this life (according to my experience and knowledge) is that you are happy with your choices and at peace with yourself. Then everything else will go right too. I'm glad for you:)

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  2. I remember you tweeting about peanut butter frosting on these. Glad you went for it as they look and sound delicious! As for marketing, that's what I do for a living and it's enjoyable and you can earn good money too - don't listen to the naysayers!

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  3. I studied accounting and now I'm an accountant. And it's still not what I want to do. My marketing major friends definitely have more exciting jobs than I do. If you like your major that's a really good sign. Better than a lot of us can say. Good luck!

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  4. Why don't you go into the baking field...you'd be awesome!

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  5. It's so funny to me that everyone harps on and on about their degrees. Often you'll find people who get a degree in one thing but find their happiness in another field. I got my degree in Business Management and shortly afterward I became pregnant with my first child, so I never really used my degree. It wasn't that I didn't want to work it was a choice to stay home and manage my family instead. : )

    Anyway, I think to a company it's more important to show that you have tenacity to complete something. The bonus is getting to have a career that you enjoy versus taking a job.

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  6. I like the cakes that you blog about. But I like you even more! You're going to have a great working life because you've got your head on right! And I feel inspired to make these wonderful Pumpkin, chocolate peanut buttery cupcakes!

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  7. This is my kind of situation! Love these cupcakes :)

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  8. i always enjoy reading your posts..and obviously LOVE the dessert recipes, too! keep up the good work. i wish more college students viewed life the way you do. very mature. YOU GO GIRL!

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  9. You will totally be fine. It's always funny to me that so many people do not end up working jobs that have anything to do with their majors. If you like marketing, then stick with it.

    Something tells me you may just end up working with food, though. A baker, a food stylist/photographer, a world-famous cookbook author. All are possibilities. Our passions have a tendency of defining us and leading us down paths we never imagined.

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  10. As a freshman just starting out at MSU, i just want to wish you the best of luck. Reading your blog since being in high school, I didn't think I was going to end up in East Lansing, but here we all are! :) keep doing what you love - you're an inspiration!

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  11. I love this post! It's reminding me so much of... well, me :) I'm also a senior student now, studygin political science which is really not the thing I probably should do. I've been complaining and torturing myself about this choice for a while, but eventually I managed to make a piece with a world. Cause the things is, without this maybe not that suitable education I wouldn't be who I am today. I wouldn't have met all my friends from university and I wouldn't have a life that I have now. And I kinda like my life. So, after all, I trully believe, that every choice me make is the right one. You just have to work for this rightness sometimes ;)

    Good luck with everything! ;)

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  12. Thank you for this post. Having started and tossed in a degree, I'm teetering on the brink of another year and another option, wondering what could have been. I'm really grateful for your perspective. (also your cupcakes look beautiful.)

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  13. I rather randomly found this page through Pinterest, and Im glad I did.
    Although I graduated in 2009 with a Bachelor of Commerce in Human Resources, and am studying Post Grad Psychology currently - I never feel like its "enough". Your post was intelligently written and engaging - your words really spoke the truth.
    Thanks for sharing - what a much more positive way to look at life!
    Samara

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  14. That's a beautifully written post. I did my degree many years ago - not sure it was the "right" choice, but actually I am pretty happy with my life - and am fairly certain I would not have been if I had studied accounting! Maybe I could have earnt more but the "cost" of that is more than I could have paid. I sometimes wonder if others tell us we could have made a better choice in order to justify their choices to them selves?
    Looking forward to trying out the recipe - peanut butter and chocolate is my favourite combination (heaven in a malt milkshake, which sadly is rare as hens teeth in the UK)

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  15. Sounds like a slightly strange combination but the photos seem amazing. Will have to give it a go : )
    Allie from Urban Feast
    http://theurbanfeast.wordpress.com/

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  16. This post was beautiful. Thank you for writing it! I'm not sure if I'm doing the right degree, but I'm glad you are! And the cupcakes look divine (:

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